Jason, the boys, and I spent yesterday and today at his parents’ house. We intended on only spending yesterday with them, but it got late, and the weather wasn’t supposed to be all that great, so we spent the night. Today, we went to church, ate out, and afterwards, I took a nap (and it was WONDERFULLLLLL!!!) on the couch. We decided about 3:30 to get moving and get home before dark. Generally, it’s a pretty quick 60 mile trip on the interstate. Well, today, things were a bit different.

Before we even got out of town, I found that driving the speed limit on the roads *in town* was too fast. I could feel myself slipping on the ice, and I had to slow down on roads that were only 40 mph. Normally, Jason does all the winter driving, and I either read or stare down the road and freak out intermittently as I feel the car slide a bit. Well, he’s had the flu (not the stomach flu, the actual influenza flu) since Thursday, so I got the opportunity to practice my winter driving skills. We started out of town, and the first 3 miles were great. I was very relieved until we went around a curve in the road, and all of a sudden, the road was covered in ice.

The normally 60 mile, hour long drive became a 25-35 mph, 90 minute drive. As bad as it was for us, I was concerned about friends of ours who had gone out to western North Dakota for a hockey trip. They had a 5+ hour trip on normal roads. I had Jason call their house while we were driving home and we got no answer. We got home, and I meant to call them again, but I was worried it was too late so I decided to wait until morning. They just returned our call and said that between the turnoff where we live and the one they take, which is about 10 miles, there were 13 cars in the ditch. It was just a quick conversation so I’m not sure how long their trip lasted, but if it was anything like ours and they had to deal with the dark, I wouldn’t be surprised if it was 8 or more hours.

Can I breastfeed while pregnant? Well, I can. Can you? Chances are you may have been told no. Chances are good that the answer is actually yes. Many women are told by well meaning friends, family, or doctors that when they get pregnant, they must wean their nursling immediately or risk having the unborn baby lack essential nutrients. This is not the case. If there are risks, they generally come when a pregnant mother is nursing a baby who is younger than 9 (or so) months. This is because the mother’s milk often changes flavor due to hormones. It can also change to colostrum or mom’s supply can drop. If you are nursing a young baby while pregnant, be sure you’re paying close attention to diaper output. Your baby should be wetting at least 4-5 diapers a day. If your baby is older than 6 weeks, he should be pooping on a regular basis. For some babies, regular is once every three days. For others, it’s once every 4 hours. Diaper output is a quick and easy way to determine how your baby is doing.

Currently, I have a 16 month old son who is nursing 2-3 times a day, and I am 22 weeks pregnant with our second child. Before my husband and I started trying to conceive our second child, I did a fair amount of research on the subject of tandem nursing and nursing while pregnant. Kellymom.com, the La Leche League, Dr. Sears, and Dr. Greene all have great information for moms who are looking for information and answers to their questions about nursing a toddler while pregnant.

During my pregnancy with my son, I suffered almost no morning sickness, so when I started having some mild to moderate morning sickness with this pregnancy, I worried a little bit that Baby wouldn’t be getting what he or she needed and that my milk supply would drop due to a lack of calories and fluid intake. Because of this, I made an appointment with a registered dietician at my clinic to discuss what would be necessary to make sure all three of us got what we needed during the pregnancy.

However, as much as I want to encourage you to keep breastfeeding if that’s what you want, there are a couple situations in which you should talk to your doctor and may have to wean. If you have had preterm labor (going into labor prior to 37 weeks), you should talk to your doctor and a lactation consultant about your choices. Also, if you have had multiple miscarriages, it’s also a good idea to talk to your doctor when making this decision.

The other situation is that it’s possible some women want to wean at the beginning of their pregnancy to have a bit of a break before starting to breastfeed again when their babies are born. That’s fine, and in my opinion you should not feel guilty about making that choice either. The most important thing a mom can do for her children is to take care of herself. If she doesn’t take care of herself, she will not have as much energy to take care of them. If breastfeeding is no longer the best choice for you, check out the weaning ideas and strategies to help you get started on that track.