Darn. I Hate It When I’m Disappointed With a Book.
Through the years, I’ve always loved reading. I’ve read more some years than others. This seems to be a pretty good year for me, but I’d always like to have more time for reading. Some day, it will happen, right? Please??
Anyway, for a long time, I found a lot of satisfaction in reading a lot of books. I read voraciously. I read everything. I read anything I picked out. In the past year, I have found that I don’t find as much satisfaction in that as I used to. Now, I’m really looking for a book that means something to me. Maybe since my reading time is much more limited, I want each book to be an experience. I want to take something from it. I want to be a different person because of it. I want to know the characters. I want to appreciate the style. I don’t simply want to finish it.
This is part of the reason that I was so disappointed when I spent an evening reading a book from our local library the other day. It had the promise to be SO good! When I read the back, I was hooked. I brought it home, and I wanted to devour it. I knew that I would finish it all in one evening. Unfortunately, after about the first three or 4 chapters, I started skimming. Then, I started really skimming. By the end, I was primarily reading only the first and last page of each chapter with a glance to the other pages. Then, I read the ending, and I thought “ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!??! That’s how it ended??? Ugh.”
Now, for those of you who are wondering what the name and/or who the author of
this book is, I’m not going to say. What? Yes, I know. The thing is that books are so individual. A person’s tastes are so different. I don’t want to say that a book is terrible and have people not read it because I didn’t like it. I am perfectly willing to give recommendations of books I enjoyed and considered to be good, but I don’t think it’s fair for me to label a book as “bad” for someone else. I love books and writing and reading too much to do that for anyone.
No fair! I wanna know! Just thinking you didn’t like it won’t mean I won’t like it.
I can understand your feelings, I am also of the “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all” mentality when it comes to reviewing books. Writing a book is a skill and a calling, while it might not have appealed to me it does not make it a bad book, just one I won’t recommend. There are so many great books I could go on and on about I choose to focus on them.
You have a great blog. I follow it pretty regularly and enjoy reading your musings about life, children, nutrition, etc.