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Darn. I Hate It When I’m Disappointed With a Book.

December19

Through the years, I’ve always loved read­ing. I’ve read more some years than oth­ers. This seems to be a pretty good year for me, but I’d always like to have more time for read­ing. Some day, it will hap­pen, right? Please?? :) Any­way, for a long time, I found a lot of sat­is­fac­tion in read­ing a lot of books. I read vora­ciously. I read every­thing. I read any­thing I picked out. In the past year, I have found that I don’t find as much sat­is­fac­tion in that as I used to. Now, I’m really look­ing for a book that means some­thing to me. Maybe since my read­ing time is much more lim­ited, I want each book to be an expe­ri­ence. I want to take some­thing from it. I want to be a dif­fer­ent per­son because of it. I want to know the char­ac­ters. I want to appre­ci­ate the style. I don’t sim­ply want to fin­ish it.

This is part of the rea­son that I was so dis­ap­pointed when I spent an evening read­ing a book from our local library the other day. It had the promise to be SO good! When I read the back, I was hooked. I brought it home, and I wanted to devour it. I knew that I would fin­ish it all in one evening. Unfor­tu­nately, after about the first three or 4 chap­ters, I started skim­ming. Then, I started really skim­ming. By the end, I was pri­mar­ily read­ing only the first and last page of each chap­ter with a glance to the other pages. Then, I read the end­ing, and I thought “ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!??! That’s how it ended??? Ugh.”

Now, for those of you who are won­der­ing what the name and/or who the author of
this book is, I’m not going to say. What? Yes, I know. The thing is that books are so indi­vid­ual. A person’s tastes are so dif­fer­ent. I don’t want to say that a book is ter­ri­ble and have peo­ple not read it because I didn’t like it. I am per­fectly will­ing to give rec­om­men­da­tions of books I enjoyed and con­sid­ered to be good, but I don’t think it’s fair for me to label a book as “bad” for some­one else. I love books and writ­ing and read­ing too much to do that for anyone.

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2 Comments to

“Darn. I Hate It When I’m Disappointed With a Book.”

  1. On December 20th, 2008 at 7:20 am Shannon Says:

    No fair! I wanna know! Just think­ing you didn’t like it won’t mean I won’t like it. :(

  2. On December 21st, 2008 at 7:46 pm Jennifer Says:

    I can under­stand your feel­ings, I am also of the “if you don’t have any­thing nice to say don’t say any­thing at all” men­tal­ity when it comes to review­ing books. Writ­ing a book is a skill and a call­ing, while it might not have appealed to me it does not make it a bad book, just one I won’t rec­om­mend. There are so many great books I could go on and on about I choose to focus on them.

    You have a great blog. I fol­low it pretty reg­u­larly and enjoy read­ing your mus­ings about life, chil­dren, nutri­tion, etc.