When is it final?
Since I have been about 20 weeks pregnant, I could tell that my milk supply has been dipping more and more. My little milk man was still determined to continue nursing though. He nursed several times a day at that point. Steadily, though, he has decreased his nursing over the past weeks until he was down to one or two times a day pretty consistently. Well, the weekend of May 12 and 13, my family was in town, and with all the commotion of having them here, my little milk man seemed to forget about nursing. May 14th was the first day in his life that he went an entire day without nursing. He did nurse the next day though, so I thought maybe he would slowly cut out that last session.
Well, this week, he went from Sunday, May 20th until today without nursing. Imagine my surprise when this morning after I got him from his crib, the first thing he did was look at me and do the milk sign!
So, when do I say he officially weaned? I have no idea, but I do know that I will let him nurse as long as he keeps asking. Just for my own purposes, I would love it if he could make it until June 3rd, so I can say that he nursed for 19 months.
I do know now that each time he nurses, I try to remember every minute of it. I realize that each time that could be the last time we ever do that, and I won’t know it at the time. I’ll only be able to look back and realize it later.
Oh I can really relate to this post! Weaning is such an emotional milestone. I hope it all goes well for you — you have done so well to both breastfeed for so long and to breastfeed through a pregnancy.
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